Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Finally, the Day Has Arrived

  

   

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Finally, the Day Has Arrived


“A new baby is like the beginning of all things – wonder, hope, a dream of possibilities.” – Eda LeShan

 

The trimesters of pregnancy are ending now. They were full of mixed feelings where a woman goes through several hormonal changes and emotions, mood swings, the nervousness of being pregnant, the excitement for the day of the baby’s arrival, etc.

 

The 40 weeks of pregnancy play a crucial role in the baby’s development in a mother’s womb. Each day is precious for achieving the desired milestones. The pregnancy time is full of nausea, heartburn, swelling, gaining weight, exercise, a healthy diet, and what not?

I remember the day when my gynecologist told me and my husband at the end of the 7th month, that the baby’s weight is less than compared to what it should be. It frightened us for a second and didn’t want to take the risk. I am grateful for my MIL (mother-in-law) who prepared a healthy meal for me and took care of my diet. They forced me to have more protein intake so that the baby could gain weight. By god’s grace, when we got the ultrasound done after a few days, the baby had gained weight by 1 kg. We breathed a sigh of relief.

 

But now the time has come when the delivery would happen anytime. It was my 38th week going on. It was Friday, 8th Feb 2019, I had my breakfast a little early and thought to wind up the kitchen task and was getting prepared to go to the park for a walk. Suddenly, it made me scared when my water bag broke down. It made me frightened. I changed into my pajamas almost 3 times and went to my mil(mother-in-law). She understood the time has come. She asked me to keep my bag and the diaper bag separately. I explained to my husband about the situation and we went to the hospital. We rushed quickly to the hospital, keeping in mind that we would return soon.

OMG! I forgot to go to the parlor too. My bad luck, it was me who was delaying it. But when the gynecologist came to check on me, she told me the cervix was dilated around half cm and they couldn’t allow us to get back home in such a situation.

I was being admitted there by 3 pm after all my husband did all the formalities. Our heart was dying to see the face of a beautiful soul soon. Everything went well and why we went for C-section, I’ll explain that in my upcoming blog. It was 11:07 pm in the operation theatre when I got a tear of joy after hearing the baby’s cry. That “first-cry” is the bundle of joy forever and that sound will remain in my heart forever. Are you curious to know whether it blessed me with a girl or a boy? You need to wait for my next blog to know more about it.

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Wednesday, March 3, 2021

Book Review: Heartbeat - A Journey to Motherhood

 



Book: Heartbeat - A Journey to Motherhood

Publisher: 24by7publishing

Author: Monali Kakoty

Genre: Non-fiction (Self-Help), (Motherhood)

Pages: 87

Rating: 4*

Reading Time for the blog: 3 minutes

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 *Are you going to be a "mom-to-be soon"?


*Are you a "first-time parent"?


*Are you looking for pieces of advice on "how to deal with postpartum depression after childbirth"?  


It's a dream of every woman to become a mother once in her life so that she can experience this gift of nature “The Motherhood”. And it becomes reality when the heartbeat shows in the ultrasound machine and it is confirmed that she is going to be a mother soon. 

  

Why Did I Choose This Book?



Although, the motherhood journey starts when the baby is in her womb itself. Do you always wonder how a woman connects with her baby after getting an ultrasound done? A new life is born in her womb just right after that “one heartbeat” she hears. 

 

About the Author


 

Monali is a freelance writer and editor. She teaches English in a reputed school in Delhi. She has written various articles for various online and offline magazines, newspapers, and blogs, etc. The author has spent her childhood days amidst the tea gardens in the easternmost part of Assam. She pursued her bachelor's in English Literature from Delhi University.

 

About the Book


Every woman would be happy to share her first-time pregnancy news with everyone. But she has different emotions going on within her mind. Like the same, the author has also shared all about her personal experiences of being a new mother. What all trauma she was facing and despite all the struggles during trimesters, the feel of the baby's movement could make her excited and positive to face all the struggles. 

 

Being a first-time mother, you shall not know what all difficulties would be there. But the author has put her best efforts to describe every phase of pregnancy a mother would face.

 

The book has eight small chapters that depict the idea. A few are like Motherhood, Smiles, and struggles, Feeding right, keeping the baby healthy and happy. Etc.


This book will help you in clearing all your little doubts related to the growth of the child during their first 1000 days.


The author truly believes that, while taking care of the baby, a mother should equally practice self-care. you need to read the book to know about those valuable tips.

 

We all want to know - How Is This Book Helpful?



  • useful self-care tips for a new mother.
  • Awareness about phases of pregnancy.
  • Motherhood- a career halt or an opportunity.
  • How a baby communicates through sounds-crying, cooing and squealing, etc.

 

 

Who should read this book?


This is a quick read and full of content for all "moms-to-be, and already first-time mothers".


 The book is highly recommended for all those who’re looking for advice on how to deal with newborn stages like crawling, Potty-training, teething, talking, walking and traveling, etc.

 

The book also expresses the heart of a new mother filled with emotions. The writing style is lucid and engaging. 


This is a short-read book with resourceful content, especially not to be ignored by those women who're planning for the newborn. This book will not only make you enter the journey of pregnancy dilemma but also how to handle the newborn afterward.

So, What’re You Waiting For?


Come on ladies, it is always best to learn from other mother’s experiences. Just cherish the moment of being in motherhood with a cup of coffee along with the book. Get yourself immersed in the book to experience motherhood. This book will help you celebrate the womanhood, motherhood in you. 


On this International Women's day 2021, get yourself acknowledged with the book.


The book is for all those supportive fathers too who want to support their wives in the journey of parenthood and making this a beautiful journey altogether.


And last, please don't forget to comment “what motherhood” means to you?

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Friday, January 1, 2021

Book Review-Working Mothers

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Book: WORKING MOTHERS

Publisher: Notion press

Author: Farhana Iffath

Genre: Non-Fiction 

Pages: 86

Rating: 4.5*

Reading Time for the blog: 2 minutes

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Why did I choose this book?

 It’s important to appreciate every woman for their efforts they put in. The title of the book “Working Mothers - You are just wow” is not a book focussed on salaried women but equally also for all those women who work selflessly for their families and kids, etc.

About The Book:

There is always something to learn from everyone, so the same way the author has shared about her and other women's experience. She shares a few secrets for all those mothers who need a little advice on their parenthood journey. 

The book is based on the author's personal experiences where she explains how living in a joint family has helped her develop team-building skills, behavioral skills, planning time management, and of course financial management. The author’s secrets are like having patience and knowing your child.


About The Author: Farhana Iffath

The author is a multi-tasker who is a Soft Skills and Personality Development Trainer, also a founder of “IPH - the playschool, Ranipet, and also an IT Professional. She wants to inspire the working mothers of the 21st century to get rid of the Guilt-trips they undergo.

How Is This Book Helpful?

The author has talked about a few hard-working mothers with unique personalities and how they have balanced their work-life and motherhood. And how they cope with the pressure and how they used to multitask even while taking care of their children as well.

Chapter number 9 - Know your child from the book is a must-read. It explains how to know about your child’s multiple intelligences.

Who is the book for?

All those mothers who are looking for some inspiration and those who appreciate other women’s hard work.

Every Mother has her own secret of how they want their kids to grow up. 


So, what’re you waiting for?

I appreciate the beauty in the author's writing where her focus is on all the mothers and the children who are  connected emotionally with each other.

This is a short and simple reading book. Fathers can also read this book to understand and to appreciate the efforts of their women in life.


If you’re the one looking to know the secret of other mothers, how well they have raised their kids along with managing multiple tasks at a time. Then click on the link below to grab your copy now.

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Happy Motherhood!

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Wednesday, November 25, 2020

The Best Foods to Boost Milk Supply in Nursing Mothers

 



Reading time for the blog: 6 minutes

Hello Mommies!

I would like to thank my friend Radhika Srinath for this wonderful guest post. Undoubtedly, it's helpful for all the nursing mothers who're looking forward to boosting their milk supply.

The Best Foods to Boost Milk Supply in Nursing Mothers

Many new mothers, especially first-time mothers find it difficult to nurse their babies. It's either because they are misinformed about their own capability to feed or doubts that the baby is fed enough. Mostly, just the mother's milk is more than enough for the growth and development of the infant, and it's very essential to know some do's and don'ts while feeding your baby. First thing, make sure you have enough supply by checking with your gynecologist and that the baby is comfortable getting latched to you.

Let me reiterate that feeding your baby only with mother's milk for at least six months plays a major role in the overall health of your baby. Also, mothers can continue feeding their babies till, at least, two years of age, adding complementary food along the way as your little one develops. I would love to share some of the foods that help increase your milk supply naturally so that you need not to worry about it while feeding.

  • Garlic boiled in cow's milk

Taking a handful of garlic boiled in milk, preferably cow's milk, increases the mother's milk supply to a great extent and also helps keep cancer tissues from developing. Just taking garlic for three or four days gives a drastic increase in the mother's supply. Just dry roasting garlic and having it along with jaggery also helps increase the mother's milk supply. Garlic is a wonderful gift from nature and helps keep female hormones in the right balance.

  • Asafoetida

Blocks of asafoetida are preferred over powdered ones and are available in supermarkets. heat up a pan and put the block into it and you can see it loosening with heat. turn off the heat after it's loosened and while it's still warm break it up into pieces, roll it into tiny tablets and store it in an air-tight container. After meals, take this one tablet a day to increase milk supply in feeding mothers. Normally, new mothers are advised to take some extra amount of food in order to be able to better feed the little one. Taking this tablet after meals helps release built-up gas in your body and eases digestion. 

  • Raw Papaya

Shred raw papaya, cook it until it's soft and temper - it's said to improve vitamin A along with milk production. It's a great way to increase immunity and other essential vitamins in the newborn through the mother's feed.

  • Fenugreek/Methi

Either taking methi leaves or as seeds help increase milk supply. Taking a spoonful of methi seeds first thing in the morning helps in digestion too and keeps your blood sugar level under control.

  • Barley

Those few months after delivery is when most mothers put on a lot of weight. Boil barley and take it with milk either sweet or salty, as you like it, for breakfast - this dish will fill up your tummy, and also those low calories will help manage your weight gain.

  • Broken wheat

This can be taken either as broth just like barley mentioned above or simply cooked as Khichdi. Take wheat in any form - roti or any type of Indian bread helps to increase milk supply. 

  • Curry leaves

The curry leaves that we get for free as a compliment for buying veggies in the market is actually packed with a lot of folic acids. After delivery, when the mother is taking solid food for the first time, curry leaf powder with boiled rice is suggested as the first option as it will digest easily and will offer all those nutrients necessary for the new mother. Fry the leaves with a little oil and grind it to make chutney along with other essential ingredients, which will go as a side dish with rice or also as a pickle for Rotis.

  • Drumstick flowers

These flowers can be plucked directly from the tree or gathered by laying a clean cloth under the tree as it falls. cook these fresh white flowers along with small onions and some dried red chilies to go as your side dish for rice/roti. They will give you a burst of energy and nutrients that within a few days you can see the difference in your milk supply. They are packed with wonderful nutrients to give your little ones strength and immunity.

  • Potato with cumin seeds

Boil potatoes, temper and cook it with a lot of jeera seeds - helps in improving milk supply as well as a treat to your taste buds. Just like fenugreek, a spoonful of jeera seeds with warm water in the morning on an empty stomach helps digestion and keeps a check with your sugar level.

  • Sago

These tiny white beads can be boiled in milk either sweet or salty as you like it. Making a kheer out of it will satiate your taste buds and also improve your milk supply. Please make sure you buy the genuine ones as plastics fabricated to look like sago can easily cheat you.


Most first-time mothers go through depression which is a major issue and will diminish your normal milk production in your body. If you would like to feed your baby mother's milk, please be confident of yourself - these moments will wither away with time, so every time while feeding your baby, please sit comfortably and feed peacefully enjoying those precious moments you bond with your baby.

It is natural to doubt if your body is making enough milk for your baby, but trust me, all mothers are equipped with the necessary mechanism to fulfill your baby's needs. As the baby keeps suckling on, nature will do its job to increase the right amount of milk it needs, our bodies do such an amazing job and tune in to the requirements - the more the baby suckles the brain signals the bosom to produce more milk, just like demand and supply in the market.

Despite the pain you go through, the sacrifices you make in the name of your child, these early moments in your motherhood journey are wonderful moments that are better experienced than said. Be proud that you are making the next generation of kids healthy and happy while enjoying your part along the way!

Happy and healthy nursing, mommies!

Hope this article is helpful to you.

Don’t forget to share how you are feeling while nursing. You can share your own experience also how did you boost your milk supply and what all did you do your best?

Don't feel disheartened if you've not fed your baby due to some reason. Don't feel guilty for the same. Despite being guilty, feel grateful to be a mother. You know the best for your child.

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Tuesday, November 3, 2020

BOOK REVIEW: D.A.T.E W.I.T.H F.A.T.E

 

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D.A.T.E W.I.T.H F.A.T.E How to use the POWER SUCCESS FORMULA for women to decode life’s lessons and become a SUPER mom! 


Book: D.A.T.E W.I.T.H F.A.T.E

Publisher: Happyselfpublishing

Author: Ishwarya Lakshmi K

Genre: Non Fiction (Self-Help)

Pages: 153

Rating: 4.5*

Reading Time for the blog: 3 minutes, 30 seconds 


Why did I choose this book?


Being in the motherhood journey for the last 21 months, I also wanted to discover the gap between my expectations and reality.

The sub-title of the book caught my attention and convinced me to read the book. I purchased a kindle subscription within a second and started reading.


About the book:


The book is about a mother on how she overcame her breastfeeding issue. How she stopped formula milk and started with breastfeeding.

If you’re already a mother, I'm sure you would love to know about how the author manages her work-life balance. She has found her primary support system to help her out. Read the book to know “HOW’?

How the author's conversation with an angelic inner voice helped her to take the decision of her life to become a “life coach”?


About the author: Ishwarya Lakshmi K


The author is an emPOWERment coach for supermoms. She believes every super mom should take some daring actions to live life on their terms. Her mission is to help 5000 moms to lead a successful life. She makes sure that you’re not compromising on your motherhood journey but balancing out all the things well together like relationships, breastfeeding issues, and imbalance in lifestyle, etc.)


How is this book helpful?


  • To realize your inner potential
  • To know your strengths being a mother
  • First, connect with yourself and then take action.
  • Listen to your angelic inner voice


Loving yourself is the most beautiful feeling ever. One should always prioritize themselves in terms of their health, to pursue their dreams, and to pamper oneself. We often forget to take care of ourselves and get stuck in our day-to-day responsibilities of life.


Why do I recommend this book?


  • If you feel like you’ve forgotten your true self after the delivery of your baby.
  • If you’re unsure about what to do in life.
  • If you want to take some daring actions.
  • If you’re not able to manage your early motherhood days, then you must definitely read this book.
  •  Each and every chapter of the book will push you to move forward.
  • It’s highly recommended for all the moms to read this book to push yourself a little.


Who is the book for?


For all the new supermoms who’re looking to empower themselves. Being a mother myself, I also struggled with the breastfeeding issues at the initial stage. So, I could relate with the author, what she would have gone through. 


I was also guilty at some point of time in my life. But, after reading this book, I am calm and more confident in my motherhood journey. A mother knows and does the best for her child.


This book will definitely give you goosebumps and taking more action. I have already downloaded D.A.T.E WITH F.A.T.E ACTION GUIDE MAP and started working on my dreams. This book is encouraging for all the supermoms. 


What emotion was I going through while reading this book?


I was overwhelmed at every point of time where the author shares about her motherhood journey and targeting breastfeeding related issues. This happens with every new mother who’s not able to cope up. But, obviously, things are learned the best way based on experiences.


I am deeply in love with the conversation between the author and the angelic voice in chapter one. One should definitely follow this and even make it a ritual to know oneself better.


Learnings from the book:


  • You don’t need to compromise on your dreams even after entering into a motherhood journey.
  • Everything can be managed well with time and patience.
  • You must have the right intentions for whatever you’re doing.
  • Listen to your angelic inner voice.
  • Identifying your Life-blocker.


At the end of the chapter, the author has shared a few mothers' real-life stories about how they overcame their struggles. How they have redesigned their life.


So, Mumma!


Believe in your POWER.


 what’re you waiting for?


Make sure that you download the action guide map and get it printed. Now, it’s time to start working for yourself.



You can share your reviews about the book in the comment box. You can also share what difficulty you faced during your breastfeeding days? Was it smooth? How do you maintain a work-life balance?

Being a homemaker is not an easy task though. we would love to know how do you manage everything so well?


Looking forward to knowing you better as a mother.


Happy Motherhood Journey!


The book is definitely on my To-Read list.


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