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This blog post is a part of #BlogchatterHalfMarathon.
“Blame no one for your actions. Instead, take the responsibility yourself”. -Radhika
Never Underestimate Yourself
It has
been four years since my marriage. I feel blessed with a loving family and a
toddler. I am a family-oriented girl who values relationships more than
anything else in the world. Recently My father-in-law(fil) and mother-in-law(mil) had to
go out of town for a week. My mil is the one who wakes up early at 5 AM and
does almost 50% of the work. I used to
wake up by 7 AM and prepared breakfast for everyone. But after knowing that
they have booked their tickets four days before only.
I had a lot of questions in my mind related to household work, and managing staff, etc. But, I am busy with my toddler all day. So, I was struggling with so many things that I wasn't aware of. But I put
in a lot of effort in understanding all the work responsibilities given by my
in-laws.
I woke
up early by 6:30 AM and did all the tasks that my mil used to do after waking
up. Like switching on the motor, doing Pooja, preparing food and assigning
tasks to the staff, and spending time with my 2.5 years.
I used
to sleep for around 2 hours when my mil was there. But I rarely took a quick
nap of 30 mins. Meanwhile, I made my daughter sleep. I thought of completing my
tasks like writing in my journal, making to-buy lists, reading books, writing
blogs, and co-ordinating with my husband for some other work.
I never
felt confident that I could manage things. I put an extra effort by
waking up a little early, writing the top 3 tasks of the day, etc. I never woke up early before. But this week
was a change for me. I tried to stay organized as much as possible. And,
undoubtedly, that one week boosted my self-confidence like anything. I can say
to myself that I can decide on my then. I put in my best efforts to manage
everything well and finish each task on time. I spent enough quality time with
my little one and the husband. I felt blessed when they enjoyed the fresh food
prepared by me.
A FEW
THINGS THAT HELPED ME TO BOOST MY CONFIDENCE AND TO STAY ORGANISED.
- I love myself
- I am Enough.
- I deserve to be happy, healthy, and successful.
- I am falling in love with taking care of myself.
- I am grateful for having people that push me to become better.
- I am grateful for everything.
- I am blessed.
- I believe in myself.
- I have the power to make my dreams true.
- I CAN DO IT.
- SETTING UP THE ALARM
- MAKE UP YOUR MIND!
Note: My primary intention to share this blog is to inspire other women who feel less confident. You need to believe that if you decide to do anything, You'll never go back. You have the power, you can achieve anything that you desire.
Let's share in the comment box below what inspires you to be yourself?
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How to Start Teaching Your Toddler at Home?
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